有一种参加集体跨年的人都好闲的感觉，他们都没事情做吗？ （找工状态癫狂hh

胃是人的情绪器官，还有什么比在晚上吃一碗热气腾腾的雪菜肉丝面更幸福的呢？ 好幸运！

Life’s irony: we chase those who don’t want us and overlook those who do. Maybe the real goal isn’t about being liked but becoming someone you’re proud of. Strength attracts strength, and the right people will come.

对结果去魅，重要的是过程

About Persuation True persuasion isn’t about winning an argument; it’s about aligning goals. Empathy is key—identify their priorities and focus on how your idea aligns with what they value most. Constantly remind them of the shared vision.

Nov Recap: I pushed myself hard this month—mentally and physically. After the career coach, my goals became crystal clear, and I’ve been driving myself to the edge of limits. But it came at a cost: I fell sick twice from the stress and pressure. This isn’t sustainable. It’s a reminder that life isn’t just about hustling or achieving goals. 不是找工学习以外的才是生活，生活就是生活本身。

Life is a cycle of breaking and rebuilding. Each new stage comes with its own struggles. When talk to others, I realize no one’s path is easy. Everyone feels like they’re not growing fast enough. But the truth is: progress isn’t a race. Accept where I am. Reclaim my worth. Remind myself ‘Destruction clears the way for renewal.’ Give yourself the time to rebuild.

Today’s job hunt reflections: The demand for data engineers far exceeds that for data scientists and absolutely exceeds data analysts. The shift is clear—companies are prioritizing infrastructure and pipelines over analysis. Time to adapt and thrive.

上午用来学习，下午用来找工作

Haven’t been sick in a long time, but these past two days, I caught a cold. I spent the whole day in bed, doing nothing and eating randomly, thinking I was resting. But in reality, I was just draining myself—I felt even more exhausted. I realized that when my body is tired, I can’t just give in. I need to find small, positive ways to relax—stretching, listening to soft music, sipping warm tea. Our bodies and minds are connected. When one is struggling, the other needs to step in and help

Time is the currency of life. 好累，但好累才是正常的。

Have been reflecting on my job search strategy recently and realized I'm too 浮躁 and easy to be distracted. It’s so easy to get overwhelmed by endless job alerts and opportunities, falling into the hole of sending out resumes without purpose or intention. I saw anything on Linkedin or Email. I just go and apply, and I call it "progress". The truth is, that kind of scattered effort rarely pays off. Now, I’m slowing down, embracing my weaknesses, and turning them into strengths. Focus > FOMO. Quality > Quantity. Progress is about clarity, not chaos.

我发现我这个人做事情一定要进入上头状态，一上头了啥都能干成

Whoever brings you the most peace should get the most time

Weekly Recap 11.17 Less is more & Be responsible for your time This week was full of focus and progress. I’ve been reminding myself of “less is more,” staying focused on what truly matters. Every day I feel like I’m growing, but when I look at others, I can’t help but feel like progress is still too slow. The real question that keeps coming up for me is: How do I maximize the value of time i invest. What’s the core value I’m chasing? It’s a constant reminder that time isn’t just about doing more—it’s about doing the right things, the things that move the needle in meaningful ways.

About goal: 目标好像西西弗斯推石头上山，到达不是目的，过程才是目的

多巴胺是一种精力引导机制

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